We are beings that like to suffer, aren't we? Nietzsche was right after all, we are beings of ressentiment suppressing our true selves in side of us for the sake of the social etiquette; we suffer and we bang our selves against the bars of our own cage but we can't get out... It's funny how this dawned on me...
One of the basic things that concerns teenagers and young people(whether in age or heart) is our relationship with the opposite sex. Yes, we spent a good amount of our time liking someone; we talk to our friends about it; we over analyze situations; we sulk and listen to depressing songs...and why? Because we do not have the courage to admit our feelings. What do we want at the end of the day? Being with that particular person, yet, even though we are aware of the fact that this is our deepest desire we hide it and prefer to live in doubt. I have always endorsed the attitude of admitting feelings but truth be told I don't have the guts to do it...no...that's a lie; unless I am pretty positive of the other person's response I won't do it, but I do take initiatives.
If you were me and I was you, I'd be curious to see what you would do 'cause after all I'm too reserved and fail to act 'till I observe...
I do like observing behaviors before I act, but when it comes to boys I keep torturing myself...Boys & girls suffer the same and we really should not. What is the worst that can happen? Rejection? If we are so afraid of rejection then we forget to live our lives and we end up living in a fantasy "What if...". So boys & girls go out there, put yourself out there because chances are that the recipient will not be rude to you.(Of course some people tend to be rude and annoying, but do not let them discourage you). If you don't risk you will never win.
Scratch your knees, fall down, but get up and continue running.
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